It is responsiveness, not attractiveness, which makes you a great lover.

Tune in to turn on.

One of the most wonderful experiences of romantic intimacy happens when you look in your partner’s eyes while you make love.

Good communication with your partner leads to better lovemaking.

Surprise adds excitement that every relationship needs.

“Immature love says: ‘I love you because I need you.” Mature love says: ‘I need you because I love you.” —Erich Fromm

Make understanding your partner a priority rather than forcing him to understand you.

Don’t let a day go by without telling your partner at least one thing that you appreciate about him.

Try to imagine what it is like being in a relationship with you.

Take charge of your finances rather than letting your finances take charge of you.

Try to see the glass half full.

“The supreme happiness in life is the conviction that we are loved.” —Victor Hugo

Be truthful with your partner.

Stand up for yourself without putting your partner down.

Keep your promises.

Trust your partner’s commitment to you.

Appreciate the relationship you have—never take it for granted.

The two elements that are crucial to a passionate relationship over time are being yourself and being loved just for being you.

The person who is responsible for making your life complete is you, not your partner.

You do not have to be perfect to find a relationship.

The Three Cs of Love is based on a model in which you are loved for who you are and feel complete in yourself.

The foundation of a healthy relationship is two adults standing side by side looking forward together, not looking for the other person to fix them.

Many people spend their entire lives trying to avoid their early childhood wounds and the painful feelings associated with them.

When you examine your love patterns, look at the part of yourself that you do not like very much—for instance, what things about you are problems for your friends?

Nature seems to force us to keep dealing with the same issues in relationships—first with our parents and then with our lovers.

Practice one of The Three Cs of Love tips every day and watch your relationship grow.

The greatest gifts in life are to love and be loved.

Romantic Love + Respect + Trust = Love That Will Last

Chemistry + Compatibility + Commitment = Love That Will Last